We tend to focus on the stuff we have as a way of measuring happiness. However, these things aren’t truly what make us happy. They may make us believe we are happy, but the things that brings us happiness do not have a price tag.
In the last few years, I have focused more on the surroundings of my life and less on the objects within my surroundings. Part of making this lifestyle a reality has been minimalising my stuff. This has freed up more time for experiences and opportunities. That act is not only one of my best decisions, but one of the most influential decisions in my short 25 years on this planet.
I want to ask you a question: What was the last thing that truly made you ‘laugh out loud’? We tend to use the acronym LOL too often to describe things we really aren’t ‘laughing out loud’ about. We don’t usually ‘laugh out loud’ about stuff or television shows or a new car. But we do ‘laugh out loud’ when we have a great time with friends at a party or meet up. These things, besides maybe a few drinks or a meal, don’t cost a thing and are what really matter in life. They will be what you think about when you are an elder. Not what size television you had when you were a college student.
Accept the simple pleasures around you. Realize these are what are worth living for. My possessions have little, if any, true value to me. My life would be fine if everything burned and I had to start over. I know my experiences are priceless and memorable no matter the circumstances of my life and stuff being lost does not take away from all that I have accomplished and done.
The simple pleasures are what you should focus on starting this moment. What would you want to be doing right now? What would make you the happiest person right now? Do that. Experience that. Be simple. If you appreciate the simple pleasures, your cluttered lifestyle will become relieved of the burden and you will be free to experience all that life has in store for you.
Dave
The Minimalist Path
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